Creative Ways to Keep in Touch with Your College Teen

As a parent, when your teen heads off to college, staying in touch becomes a new challenge. Gone are the days when you could just walk into their room for a chat. Now, you might find yourself waiting eagerly for their calls or texts. 

So, how can you encourage your college-bound teen to keep in touch? 

Here are some creative and fun strategies to keep the lines of communication open and your hearts connected.

1. The Magic of Care Packages

Nothing says "I’m thinking of you" quite like a personalized care package. 

• Fill a box with their favorite snacks, a cozy pair of socks, or even some practical items they might need.
• Add a little note with a playful nudge: "Call me when you get this!"

These thoughtful surprises can be a delightful reminder of home and a great way to prompt a catch-up call.

"A box of treats from home, with a note tucked inside, makes them call and share stories of their college ride."

2. Scheduled Catch-Up Times

Setting a regular time for calls or video chats can create a comforting routine. This doesn’t have to be rigid; maybe it’s a Sunday evening check-in or a mid-week update. Knowing you have a set time to talk can reduce the anxiety of waiting and make these moments something to look forward to.

"A weekly chat set, at a time you both agree, ensures you stay close, as they grow and fly free."

3. Digital Connection Incentives

Sometimes, a little digital nudge can go a long way. Offer incentives like topping up their meal card or sending them a favorite playlist. These small gestures show you care and encourage them to call. You can also engage through social media, sharing fun memes or updates that keep the conversation light and ongoing.

"A playlist shared or a meal card boost, keeps the calls coming with no excuse"

4. Engaging in Their Interests

Show genuine interest in what they’re passionate about. Whether it’s discussing their favorite TV show, sports team, or a new hobby they’ve picked up, engaging in their interests can be a great way to keep them talking. Ask open-ended questions about their day or their latest adventure.

"Ask about their day, their joys, and their fears, and they’ll call with stories, filling your ears."

5. Special Surprises and Traditions

Create new traditions or surprise them with something special, like sending them a small gift on exam days or planning a fun outing for their next visit home. These gestures build anticipation and a sense of ongoing connection.

"Surprises and traditions keep the bond tight, bringing joy to your teen, day or night."

Navigating the transition as your teen leaves for college can be tough, but with a bit of creativity and a lot of love, you can keep your connection strong. These strategies not only encourage regular calls but also help to maintain a close-knit relationship as they embark on their new journey. 

Remember, it’s the small, thoughtful gestures that often mean the most.

Feel free to adapt these tips and quotes to best fit your unique relationship with your teen.

The key is to make them feel loved and remembered, even from miles away.

Author:

Dr. Michelle Lloyd

Transition Success Coach