Am I Setting a Good Example for My Teen

In the quiet corners of parenthood, where the echoes of laughter and the thoughts of curious minds reside, there exists a question that transcends time and space:

"Am I setting a good example for my child?"

It's a whisper that resonates through the daily tapestry of moments, urging us to examine the footprints we imprint on the sands of our teen's lives.

As parents (with the help of God), we are architects of influence, the sculptors of the moral landscape that shapes the character of those who look up to us with eyes filled with wonder. The responsibility is weighty, yet it carries the potential for profound impact. Each word spoken, every action taken, forms the brushstrokes on the canvas of their perception.

Setting a good example is more than a checklist of do's and don'ts. It's a reflection of the values we hold dear, the integrity we uphold when no one is watching. It's in the small moments, the unspoken lessons, and the consistency of our behavior that our teens learn about the world and their place in it.

The question beckons us to introspect, to navigate the delicate balance between being authentic and being aspirational.
It's an exploration of our own values, a journey into self-discovery, for how can we guide our teens if we are unsure of our own path?

In the realm of setting examples, authenticity is the cornerstone and my authentic self loves, trusts and counts on Jesus for the help needed during my teens transition. Teens are astute observers, quick to discern the genuine from the contrived. Therefore, the question challenges us not only to be mindful of our actions but also to align our behavior with the values we wish to instill.

As we grapple with this question, let us not be consumed by self-doubt but rather be inspired by the opportunity for growth.
Parenting is a journey of continuous learning, and the question serves as a compass, directing us toward becoming better versions of ourselves.

Ultimately, setting a good example is not about perfection but about resilience, humility, and the willingness to course-correct when needed. It's about acknowledging that we, too, are evolving beings, and our teens are witnesses to the beautifully imperfect tapestry of our own growth.

So, emerging parents, embrace the question. Let it guide you on a journey of self-reflection and refinement. For in the sincerity of your pursuit to set a good example, you lay the foundation for a legacy that transcends generations—a legacy built on love, authenticity, and the enduring power of leading by example.

All the best to each of you.